Sunday, September 7, 2008

Life, Love, and school work

Life is some. Love is none. School work is a ton.


Life includeds both love and school work for me.


Love for my Grandma who passed away on Thursday the 1st of November. Really sad to be away at school when this happened and even worse that I had to stay at school until Saturday morning due to training for work. At least I was able to go home though.



Less than 7 months later my Grandad also passed away. Everyone says that most spouses do not survive more than a year after the passing of their loved one. I never wanted to believe this saying. Especially when my Gram had outlived her husband by almost 9 years. It was crazy to imagine that it was even possible.



There are some coinsidences between the deaths. Well...I guess I could compare them both to my Gram when she passed away. My Gram passed away on November 2nd which is a very close day to the 1st. I thought it was interesting that it was that close in date to eachother. When my Granddad passed away he had just had a birthday party. That is probably the most memorable time before he did pass away. My Gram had also had her birthday party the year that she passed away. It is almost ironic that these cases both took place around deaths.

I was scared when my Aunt decided to give my Grandad a surprise party. I almost immediatly thought of the fact that my Gram had thrown herself a party the year before she passed away. These are all weird coincidences that all fit together. It may be God's plan for that to all happen. I know that everything that happens for a reason, but some reasons are just scary to think about.

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